He doesn’t want to get married. What can I do?

He doesn’t want to get married. What can I do?

Marriage is something not to rush in. Sometimes marriage isn’t for everyone. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn’t. If we want to get married then we need to meet someone who has the same values as us. Values in marriage, family, children, etc. Waiting around for someone to be ready is a bad game…

Moving forward. How to move forward from narcissists and toxic relationships.

Moving forward. How to move forward from narcissists and toxic relationships.

Toxic people ruin lives over time. Narcissistic husbands make it hard to get back into the real life. Which follows that it takes even way more time to get back to a good happy life. Narcissistic and other toxic relationships will ruin all confidence and shatter lives. Moving forward after such people spend some time…

Career Decisions How to decide on your career

Career Decisions  How to decide on your career

Deciding on a career is tough. One of the most mind boggling decisions we are asked to make and we are asked too early to even know what our true passion is. During high school we are going through many changes. We are entering into a self awareness stage where we take in all the…

I want my independence from my parents

I want my independence from my parents

Parents can often control much of our lives while we live at home. If we see it as control we often start hating our situation and it turns into hating ourselves. I respond to an email where a student is struggling with independence of their parents and asks how to deal with getting what they…

Getting life started again after an Abusive relationship

Getting life started again after an Abusive relationship

Abusive relationships are inexcusable and down right horrible for anyone to go through. Verbal and physical abuse should never be tolerated but unfortunately it is never as easy as getting up and leaving. The damaging effect can be felt for sometimes years. In a positive successful first win, I respond to an email from someone…

What do I do after I have graduated? I am lost!

What do I do after I have graduated? I am lost!

Figuring out your future is a tough one. Dealing with the multiple choices in your life on what to do or not to do can cause stress and anxiety that is not needed. Picking from a list of things you like to do should be a great experience. I respond to an email where a…

How to deal with toxic people. My Narcissist Wife

How to deal with toxic people. My Narcissist Wife

My Narcissist Wife is toxic! How to deal with toxic people and how to survive. Toxic people can ruin our lives in a flash. Where everything is going great and love is in the air the tables turn without us realizing it. Toxic people need to be removed at all costs as they take away…

Starting a business or startup at 49. Should I take the risk?

Starting a business or startup at 49. Should I take the risk?

Starting a business at 40 takes guts. Taking a risk in business at any age is a mental challenge that can only be dealt with head on. When starting a business we need to mitigate risk and play our cards right. Starting a new business should be fun and not a scary moment. I run…

How to be succesful in a failing relationship

How to be succesful in a failing relationship

The email response addresses what to focus on when your relationship is going down hill. It walks through an email where someone is dealing with a girlfriend who is treating him like a doormat and he can’t get through to her.

I graduated and I can’t find a job

I graduated and I can’t find a job

How to find a job when you graduate easily and seamlessly. Preparing in advance is critical. I respond to an email of a recent grad who is having lots of emotional issues due to not being able to find a job. Please remember its all in your mind! You will get that job! Check out…